The Classroom — Book 1

She's Telling You Who She Is: Are You Listening?

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“She's been telling you who she is all along. The question is whether you're actually listening.”

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She's Telling You Who She Is: Are You Listening? — Phrases That Reveal Everything You Need To Know.

Every woman tells you exactly who she is, in the words she chooses without thinking about it. "Everybody's different." "Body count doesn't matter." "He's just a friend." "That's just your truth." Most men hear the words and miss the meaning entirely, then spend months — sometimes years — on a woman who disqualified herself in the first conversation.

This book takes the phrases you've already heard a hundred times and shows you what each one is actually reporting: her beliefs, her values, her view of what a relationship is for, and whether she has the capacity to build one. Ten chapters of decoding, two interludes on leadership and conditioning, two bonus chapters, and a conclusion on what to do once you can hear it.

It is not pickup and it is not therapy. It's listening, done correctly.

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Inside The Book

Chapters

  1. 01Everybody's Different
  2. 02Body Count Doesn't Matter
  3. 03The Patriarchy
  4. 04I'm Single By Choice
  5. 05I'm a Strong Independent Woman
  6. 06That's Just Your Truth
  7. 07I Dress For Myself
  8. 08He's Just a Friend
  9. 09Not All Women/Men
  10. 10You Just Don't Like My Answer
  11. 11Two Things Can Be True
  12. 12All I Do Is Work and Go Home

Plus two interludes, two bonus chapters, an introduction and a conclusion.

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